A trial separation should be explained with honesty, empathy and age-appropriate language while emphasizing continued parental love and support.

When discussing a trial separation with children, maintain clear and compassionate communication while prioritizing their emotional well-being. Both parents should ideally be present for this conversation to demonstrate unity in co-parenting.

• Emphasize that both parents still love them unconditionally
• Explain that parents need time apart to work through grown-up problems
• Maintain their regular routines and activities as much as possible
• Be clear about living arrangements and when they’ll see each parent
• Reassure them that the separation is not their fault
• Keep communication channels open and welcome their questions

Watch for signs of anxiety or stress in children and consider professional family counselling if needed. Remember that children need time to process this change and may require ongoing reassurance and support.