Take practical steps to prepare emotionally, legally, and financially before separating from your spouse

Preparing for separation requires careful planning across several key areas to protect yourself and ensure a smoother transition. A well-organized approach helps reduce stress and creates better outcomes.

  • Financial preparation: Gather bank statements, tax returns, investment records, and document all assets and debts
  • Legal documentation: Collect important papers including marriage certificate, property deeds, and insurance policies
  • Living arrangements: Plan where you’ll live, whether keeping the family home or finding new accommodation
  • Support system: Connect with family, friends, and professional counsellors for emotional support
  • Parenting matters: If children are involved, develop a preliminary parenting plan and consider their emotional needs
  • Personal security: Secure personal documents, change passwords, and open individual bank accounts