Take practical steps to prepare emotionally, legally, and financially before separating from your spouse
Preparing for separation requires careful planning across several key areas to protect yourself and ensure a smoother transition. A well-organized approach helps reduce stress and creates better outcomes.
- Financial preparation: Gather bank statements, tax returns, investment records, and document all assets and debts
- Legal documentation: Collect important papers including marriage certificate, property deeds, and insurance policies
- Living arrangements: Plan where you’ll live, whether keeping the family home or finding new accommodation
- Support system: Connect with family, friends, and professional counsellors for emotional support
- Parenting matters: If children are involved, develop a preliminary parenting plan and consider their emotional needs
- Personal security: Secure personal documents, change passwords, and open individual bank accounts