A trial separation is a formal arrangement where married partners live apart temporarily to evaluate their relationship

A trial separation allows couples to take a structured break while maintaining clear boundaries and expectations. During this period, partners typically establish:

  • Living arrangements – who stays in the family home and who moves out
  • Financial responsibilities – handling shared expenses, bills and joint accounts
  • Parenting schedules – if children are involved, creating a temporary custody arrangement
  • Communication guidelines – setting boundaries for contact and interaction
  • Duration – agreeing on a specific timeframe, usually 3-6 months

This cooling-off period gives both parties space to reflect on their marriage, seek counselling if desired, and make informed decisions about their future together. Unlike a legal separation, a trial separation is informal and reversible.