A trial separation is a formal arrangement where married partners live apart temporarily to evaluate their relationship
A trial separation allows couples to take a structured break while maintaining clear boundaries and expectations. During this period, partners typically establish:
- Living arrangements – who stays in the family home and who moves out
- Financial responsibilities – handling shared expenses, bills and joint accounts
- Parenting schedules – if children are involved, creating a temporary custody arrangement
- Communication guidelines – setting boundaries for contact and interaction
- Duration – agreeing on a specific timeframe, usually 3-6 months
This cooling-off period gives both parties space to reflect on their marriage, seek counselling if desired, and make informed decisions about their future together. Unlike a legal separation, a trial separation is informal and reversible.