Narcissists typically respond to divorce with intense emotional manipulation, rage, and controlling behaviours
When faced with divorce, a person with narcissistic personality traits often displays predictable yet challenging patterns of behaviour. Their deep-seated fear of abandonment and loss of control typically triggers extreme reactions.
- Initial denial and dismissal of divorce proceedings
- Attempts at emotional manipulation through guilt, threats, or love bombing
- Aggressive smear campaigns against their spouse
- Using children or shared assets as bargaining tools
- Deliberately prolonging legal proceedings for maximum control
- Alternating between rage and false promises of change
Protecting yourself during this process requires maintaining firm boundaries, documenting all interactions, and working with experienced legal professionals who understand narcissistic behaviour patterns.