Set clear, mutual agreements on communication, finances, living arrangements, and personal space during your trial separation.

Establishing healthy boundaries during a trial separation requires thoughtful planning and open dialogue. Clear written agreements help prevent misunderstandings and protect both partners’ interests.

• Create a communication plan specifying acceptable methods and frequency of contact
• Establish financial arrangements for shared expenses, bills, and joint accounts
• Define living space boundaries, including rules about visiting each other’s residences
• Set guidelines for social media behaviour and privacy expectations
• Develop a parenting schedule if children are involved, including decision-making protocols
• Agree on whether dating others is acceptable during the separation
• Outline expectations for family events and social gatherings

Document all agreements in writing and remain flexible to adjusting boundaries as needed. Consider working with a counsellor or mediator to help establish and maintain healthy separation boundaries.