Living together during a trial separation is possible with proper boundaries and agreements in place

A trial separation while living under the same roof, known as an in-house separation, can work if both partners establish clear guidelines and maintain respectful boundaries. This arrangement is often chosen for financial reasons or to minimize disruption to children’s routines.

To make an in-house separation successful, couples should:

• Create a written agreement outlining shared spaces and schedules
• Establish clear financial arrangements for household expenses
• Set boundaries for personal space and private time
• Develop separate routines for daily activities
• Maintain respectful communication, especially in front of children
• Consider using different bedrooms and living spaces

While challenging, this arrangement can provide time to evaluate the relationship while managing practical considerations like mortgage payments and childcare responsibilities.