The primary purpose of mediation is to focus on the interests of each of the parties. The mediation process can be used to:
- Clearly define the nature of complaints, disputes and issues
- Uncover suitable options and ways forward
- Manage the process, so the conclusion is a win-win
- Help deliver divorce settlements that are mutually agreeable
- Ensure all agreements reached are recorded in writing
The mediator has to be a neutral party in the negotiations, using their training and experience to resolve issues relating to the divorce. Specifically, the mediator should:
- Facilitate discussions between the couple, ensuring both get the same chance to speak during mediation
- Provide information about relevant aspects of the legal system
- Suggest different ways in which issues can be solved
- Get each party to clarify their views so they can be understood
- Tell each party how their issues may be viewed from a legal standpoint
- Recommend other experts the couple can consult