Trial separations require clear agreements, boundaries and ongoing communication to be effective

A successful trial separation depends on both partners avoiding critical mistakes that can derail the process. Clear written agreements and consistent communication are essential foundations.

Here are the key mistakes couples should avoid:

• Failing to establish specific boundaries around contact, living arrangements, and finances
• Dating or pursuing new relationships without mutual agreement and clear parameters
• Making major decisions about shared assets or children without consulting each other
• Neglecting to set a timeline or goals for the separation period
• Avoiding professional counselling or mediation support when needed
• Using the separation to punish or manipulate the other partner
• Sharing separation details inappropriately with friends, family or social media

Working with a qualified relationship counsellor or mediator can help couples navigate these challenges constructively while maintaining respect and open dialogue throughout the separation process.