What is a Cohabitation Agreement? Is it useful in Ontario?

Partners in a common law relationship often believe that after living together for a while, they become as good as married. While this may be true in a sense, especially as it concerns living together and building a family, it is mostly inaccurate. 

In many ways, the law draws a distinction between a common law relationship and a formal marriage. These differences are most obvious when it concerns matters such as separation, division of marital assets and ownership of property acquired during the marriage. 

Essentially, common law partners do not enjoy as much protection as formally married couples do under the law. Where formally married couples can expect certain benefits as a matter of right, these either do not exist for common law partners, or can only be obtained in a complex process. 

As a result, it is natural for partners in a common law relationship to try and provide ways to protect their rights during and after the relationship. Signing a cohabitation agreement is one of the ways in which they can achieve this. What is a cohabitation agreement and what does it do? Here’s all you should know.

A cohabitation agreement, often crafted between common law partners, serves as a legally binding contract. This agreement facilitates the protection of individual interests and property rights within a common law relationship, delineating the parties’ respective rights and obligations should the relationship end.

Far from being heartless, the intention to preserve one’s property after separation or dissolution of a relationship is a practical necessity. This stems from the intricate nature of laws, under Ontario law, applicable to a person’s property following the commencement of a marriage or a common law relationship.

An Ontario cohabitation agreement takes into account these laws, acknowledging that property acquired, and even debts accumulated during the relationship, might be considered shared property. This arrangement implies that, contrary to one’s intentions, one could be held accountable for a partner’s debts, irrespective of one’s contribution towards incurring them. Regrettably, the majority of individuals are uninformed about these laws and their implications.

Cohabitation agreements empower partners in a common law relationship with the liberty to make decisions on these matters. If the parties desire to equally share their finances, assets, and debts, they can enforce this through their cohabitation agreement. Similarly, if they seek more control over their own property and financial circumstances, a cohabitation agreement provides an avenue to achieve this.

Cohabitation agreements also enable formally married couples to establish their financial interests and obligations. In this context, the agreement is referred to as a “Marriage Contract”. According to Ontario’s Family Law Act (FLA), if common law spouses decide to marry, their existing cohabitation agreement automatically transitions into a marriage contract.

Most common law couples employ cohabitation agreements to predetermine the division of property in the event of separation. Others use these agreements to resolve crucial issues arising during the relationship, such as accountability for expenses, management of income, etc.

However, two crucial points require attention. Firstly, the FLA clarifies that a cohabitation agreement cannot stipulate conditions regarding child custody or child support. These vital issues can only be addressed if and when a separation occurs, not at the relationship’s inception.

Secondly, if the agreement outlines how the matrimonial home (shared residence) will be treated, these provisions may require modifications if the couple chooses to marry. In a formal marriage, both parties possess an equal right to occupy the matrimonial home, a fact that cannot be altered by either a cohabitation agreement or a marriage contract.

Please remember to seek independent legal advice to ensure your cohabitation agreement properly protects your individual rights.

Generally, there are no laws that dictate who should or should not enter into a cohabitation agreement. This means you and your partner are free to have a cohabitation agreement whenever you want. However, there are some instances when having the agreement will be important. 

The first, and most common, reason is to protect the separate property, debt and income of both partners. This can be useful to prevent creditors from having access to the property of both partners, or to prevent either partner from making claims on the other’s assets. 

A cohabitation agreement will also be useful if both or either partner has substantial assets they are bringing into the relationship. They might also want to protect their assets if they have an expectation of a significant raise in income or a financial windfall after the start of the relationship. 

This does not mean they are unwilling to share the property with their partner. It only gives them freedom over how they want to treat the property. The same applies if either or both spouses have significant debts going into the relationship. 

Another important reason is to avoid the complexity of a court-supervised process. There are many complicated rules that partners may have to rely on for division of marital property if they eventually separate. Rather than take a chance on these rules they barely understand, partners can instead agree on how they want to treat their own property by themselves. 

Just like there’s no rule dictating who can make a cohabitation agreement, there are no rules as to when to make one. Generally speaking, you may sign a cohabitation agreement before your relationship, right at the start, or at any time while it is ongoing. 

However, as any professional would advise, it is often best to have a cohabitation agreement in place before or right at the start of the relationship. The reason for this is it can be easier to come to an agreement at this stage than at any other stage in the relationship. If left till later, certain issues may have already come up or there may already be expectations that may make signing an agreement difficult. 

While it’s definitely uncomfortable to start talking about the possibility of separation when you are just starting your relationship, there’s no better time than this. In truth, it is an opportunity for both partners to show their commitment to protect each other, even if they are no longer together.